Three Steps To Conquering Your Fear Of Public Speaking

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Many studies have confirmed what most of us already know: public speaking is the number one fear worldwide, even outpacing traditionally scary things like death and snakes. The amount of stress, anxiety, and sleepless nights endured by those faced with a speech or presentation is truly staggering.

Yet the fear of public speaking can be conquered. There are people who not only don’t mind speaking to thousands of people, but actually relish the opportunity. Would you like to deliver speeches with confidence and poise? Follow the following three steps and you can eliminate your public speaking anxiety forever.

1. Don’t Accept Your Fear

Most people will never take action to address their fear of public speaking precisely because public speaking anxiety is so widespread. They accept their fear as tolerable because so many other people do the same. The obvious problem with this approach is that you will continue to give nervous and lackluster speeches and presentations for the rest of your life.
Instead, view your fear of public speaking for what it actually is: an irrational phobia. You would snicker at someone with trichopathophobia (the fear of hair) or xanthophobia (the fear of the color yellow), but at least their phobias won’t cost them countless professional and personal opportunities.

2. Videotape Is Your Friend

Next time you’re preparing for a speech, videotape yourself practicing it to critique your performance. Not only will it help you to correct flaws in your content or delivery, but you will also become comfortable seeing yourself speaking. After reviewing a tape of themselves speaking, the most common response people have by far is “Hey, I’m not that bad!”

3. Structure Your Speech

A large portion of your public speaking anxiety will disappear once you learn how to structure your speeches correctly. Talking for a 30-minute span may seem daunting whereas talking about your 6 main points for 5 minutes each is much easier to handle. Provide a main idea, follow it with supporting evidence, and then repeat the process. Using numbers (like I did in the title of this article) both helps you to remain calm (since you’re focused on a single idea) and makes your speech easier to follow for your audience.

By focusing on these three keys, you can substantially reduce or even eliminate your fear of public speaking. Becoming a confident public speaker will free your mind from the dread of giving another presentation and allow you to communicate your ideas effectively and persuasively.

Matt Nadell is the Founder and CEO of http://www.SuccessfulCommunication.com a membership site devoted to improving public speaking and persuasion skills. The site contains a mix of written, audio, and video content to help members conquer their fear of public speaking and deliver great speeches. He is a two-time national debate champion and has been featured in the Chicago Tribune as well as other publications.

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